To love is nothing, to be loved is something... to love and be loved is everything...... or issit really?

To the right is my definition of love... (P.S I took quite alot of time drawing that stupid curve.) To me, I think love and happiness will seriously drop drastically with time.... the PEAK of love is when a couple have been together for a very short period of time....when the couple still goes out together, hold hands, hug each other, kiss each other, tell each other how much he/she love each other. and the girl/boy will go to the extend of getting their partners anything that will make them happy even if it means being dead poor for a week... as time goes by.. maybe when u're in the 2nd or third year of the relationship, u'll start to speak to each other lesser and lesser.. ppl might say that its good, cos both of u understand each other too well that u wont even need to speak to know each others' needs.. but only both of u know too well that u're not speaking to each other anymore cos u just dont know what to say anymore.. cos there's no topic u guys haven talked abt anymore...and from the 4th yr onwards... both of u wont even speak a single word without sparking off an argument...

but of cos... there's always the chance for your relationship to turn for the better when u guys get married..

maybe i should really draw the graph drop steeper... nope, i din draw wrongly.... as time goes by... u'll really reach a point when there wont be ANY love anymore between both of you.... and the only thing that will keep this relationship going will only be ur children (if u're married)... some wont even stay together just for their children.. they'll just divorce..

but of cos... there are some incidents when there might be a turn for the better in a relationship after they get married, though only for a short period of time... the relationship will also soon deteroriate to such a state whereby there's nothing anyone can do to save it... couples will scream at each other anytime and anywhere.. they wont even bother how ppl will look at them outside anymore... ladies will soon turn into fat (big tummies from the results of having children), grouchy old women.. frowning at every single thing... guys will soon turn into nasty old lecher of a men.. bioing every single young lady he can see on the streets... with a big pork belly... walking way way infront of their wives and children.. making them struggle to catch up... (sometimes u wonder how they can walk so fast with their big pork bellies)..

I AM SERIOUS, dont tell me ur dad doesnt do that?? well, my dad do. maybe some lucky families will not have this kinda situation. but mine is, and i've seen many many other families like tat too...

in any case... i pray pray pray pray hard, cross my fingers and toes that my own relationshop wun turn out this way.. i really really hope me and my bf will be like those old old white haired couples who will still hold hands while strolling the park.. awwww..... so nicee...